About Friendship Home

Survivor Stories

Jean
My grandson and I lived with our abuser for six years. What he did to me was bad enough, but when he started on my boy, I called the only sanctuary I knew, the Friendship Home. We felt at home at Friendship Home with all the privileges we were allowed - cooking, laundry, the freedom to leave. They provided us with all our needs. It was our own space to feel secure. The groups that are offered are so helpful. The staff is always willing to listen to anything you have to talk about, be it happy, sad, witty, or just plain dumb. You can even call late at night when you can't sleep and need a friend.

Erin
I'll never forget February 5, 2002. That was the last time he'd ever hit me again. The education from the Friendship Home helped me to learn. I have been free from abuse since February 6, 2002. I have had a job since May 7, 2002. I've had my own apartment since May 5, 2002. Friendship Home opened their doors for me and my terrified children when we were in need of a hot meal, a bed to sleep in, shampoo, toothbrushes, and clothes for my children. My children enjoy learning from the Children's Advocate. They really look forward to Wednesday nights. I plan to keep attending these meetings as long as they offer them.

Donna
I lived with an abuser who drank excessively, who then would be violent. I became invisible and mute. No longer did I smile or speak. I was frightened and afraid. The Friendship Home gave me eyes and a voice, something I truly believed no longer existed. Now I take the bus, I can read, I can see and feel the again on my face. The Friendship Home provided me with many things that I needed. I felt safe also with the confidentiality that everyone respected. I feel very grateful that the Friendship Home and staff gave me a safe place to live while going through such confusion. It feels so good to be heard and understood.

Chrystal
I was married to my abuser for three years and was unable to work or think for myself. I came to the Friendship Home with my three-year-old almost a year ago. I received a lot of support from them in realizing I could do things for myself and I was worth something. I can now say and believe I am an independent woman who can do anything I set my mind to.